Mistake #1 is that you think finding a mate is going to make you happy and whole. You will be very disappointed to find out that another person cannot fill your empty void. Take this time to learn more about YOU, your likes and dislikes. Only you can truly make yourself happy.
find one person to connect with (guy or girl). It doesn't have to be romantic. Having one good friend can help a lot. Also smoke weed, i have the same problem as you, but a couple drags in the morning and i feel positive and confident. If you don't want weed or if it doesn't work, just have one friend it doesn't matter who. Even if they are lame, its a really good start.
