Both are wrong but they're so different that comparing them is stupid. Obviously murder is worse, but cheating on your wife is a horrible thing to do, and yes, having a woman give you a lap dance is cheating (I'm guessing you'd feel that your wife had been unfaithful were she to hire a dude who looks like Thor to rub himself all over her for 20 minutes whilst wearing a g-string, yes?).
Physical violence is never right in this situation. But you also risk losing your wife's trust. Don't disrespect yourselves .strip clubs are not the place for married men to hang out on a regular basis. And quite frankly, nothing against strippers, a girl's gotta eat, but married men that still go to strip clubs kind of repulse me.
murdering someone for their cell phone
