I am married for a year and I am not able to understand my mother in law. Whenever we go to her place she treats us well, she prepares nice food for us, but she lies a lot, whenever she makes a mistake she takes my name infront of my father in law, she never gives me anything for example if I ask her a bag she gives me an old one or simply says she doesnt have one, when i bring clothes to my sister in laws she takes all the credit and never mention my name. She doesnt even like to give me gifts which my mother gave me for my wedding, when I asked her she gave me all tradional reasons and kept it for herself. I being brought by a very decent and wealthy family is having hard time to adjust. Its not like i want or expect things from her. I always had what i wanted in my life and the way she is treating me is driving me crazy. This has happened many times. My husband does not like if I speak about it and we always have a fight when I bring these topic. I cant forget what she does and it hurts me that she is not treating me as her daughter. Me and my husband are fighting a lot and I dont know what to do.. please suggest me.
You're invading "the nest" and taking "her boy". My mother did the exact same thing and started treating my wife like crap. It ultimately ended with me severing communication with my mother. Once it's clear you have chosen your spouse/mate - she needs to respect and support that decision. Disrespect should not be tolerated under any condition.
My Fiance's mother was the same way with me, but he stood up for me and said to his mother "enough". It is very hard and difficult if your husband does not protect you from this disrespect, you need to tell him if he wants to be a mommas boy, he can go be alone you will not tolerate being disrespected