My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple months and she brought up sex. We both decided we were going to wait a while so we got to know each other better, which it's been the best relationship of my life so far, keep in mind I'm 21. Anyways when we talked about it, she said that she needs a physical connection with me for us to take the next step and get more serious. She's told me she doesn't think we will work out if we don't have an amazing physical connection we won't work out. We have a good emotional connection, but i don't know what she means by a great physical connection? She says she doesn't want sex to be like a chore to her...I guess i've always been a believer that sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. So i guess what i'm asking is, what does she mean by an amazing connection? This is the first girl that I have ever had say that she NEEDS an amazing physical connection to even stay in this relationship with me?
Sex is one of the top three reasons why couples divorce. It's more important than you think.